Do you think there's a difference between watching gay/bi porn versus having gay/bi fantasies?

Maybe.  I’ve met people who are just titillated by the act of watching gay/bi porn but say they have no desire to be part of the action.  Honestly though…if you watch something long enough you’d be hard pressed not to fantasize about it eventually.  Once we are desensitized to the shock value of getting off to something taboo…the mind will naturally go down those roads. :) xoxoxo

As long as I can remember, Ive wanted and preferred sex with men. Whats odd though, is that I can't see myself in love with a man but I can with a women. I never hear I anybody address this scenario...what is your take. Great blog by the way. I love your vision of sensuality. Thanks hon :) 

I think because men are so sexually compatible there are a lot who prefer it over sex with a woman but when it comes to having an emotional connection with men there is a disconnect.  It could be personal preference or perhaps it’s all the implications that come along with identifying as a gay man and fully allowing yourself to love and bond with another male.  I know both needs can be met by one sex…it may just take a very special guy to make you see that it’s possible to open that door.  Or a special woman who can rock your world sexually ;) xoxoxo