How can I tell her that I'm bi or that I like anal stuff without making her freak out?

Good question…hard to answer without knowing what your gf’s like.  No easy answer here I’m afraid…you’ll have to feel her out…maybe don’t hit her with it all at once.  You could slowly introduce her to some bisex threesome porn and pegging porn and point out that a lot of straight guys are into some bi-play and assplay.  Sound her out on how she feels about it.  Make it something that is not separate from her but that you'd maybe like to explore with her.  Educate her about that sweet little p-spot in your ass that is a source of pleasure.  Hopefully she is open enough to just not jump to assumptions that you must be gay because you are turned on by guys and things in your ass.  Dammit…why doesn’t Hallmark make a card for these types of occasions?!  xoxoxo
 
 
I had a dream the other week my partner and I were having a threesome and we sucked cock together. I've been thinking of it ever since. I told my partner about and how I might like it in reality, along with the fact our discussion gave me a hard on, and she freaked. She knows I have kinks, like having my arse pounded, but she says she doesn't want a bisexual partner. Do you think I can convince her to let me try cock sucking?

Hearing your partner is bisexual can be a shock for some people.  Perhaps she just needs to digest it.  It’s unrealistic to think she would smile and then jump into bed with you and another guy.  First…how does she feel about two men being together?  Does it disgust her?  Or is she okay with it so long as you are not the one doing it?  From a female’s perspective she may be worried that you will prefer men to women if you go down that road.  It could be that she is not into opening up your relationship to others. It takes a secure woman and a good solid relationship to withstand the issues that may come along with introducing new partners.  You may be thinking “I want cock”…she is likely thinking bigger than that. Your best bet is to keep the communication open with her and be patient.  Getting her to accept that your bisexuality is part of you is the first step.  Once she has calmed down and is reassured that it is not a threat to your relationship you may have a chance to explore bisex with her down the road.  Good luck hon…in the meantime, keep dreaming :) xoxoxo
 

All about the cock

09/07/2014

 
I'm physically and emotionally attracted to girls. I love girls. The thought of sucking a cock though gets me hard. Guys do nothing for me until I see their cock and balls. That's why I like glory hole porn because it's cock and balls and nothing else. My dream is to be married to an amazing girl but on occasion suck dick on the side with her knowledge of course. I feel stupid.

Darling…if you only knew how common cock lust is among men.  You are absolutely normal with NO reason to feel stupid.  Cocks are delicious and warrant all of the attention they get.  What you dream about…many men have with their partners.  It’s possible to have…just be open and honest with your prospective partners up front about your desires and don’t be ashamed of them.  There is no rule that says you have to desire the entire package when it comes to men.  A lot of guys have a hard time breaking down the mental barrier that allows them to even entertain the notion of being attracted to another man.  Cocks definitely seem to be the neutral place where a lot of men start.  So embrace your desire, don’t ever utter the words “I feel stupid” and hopefully one day you’ll find yourself on your knees with a mouthful of heaven! ;) xoxoxoxo  

 
 
Do you think a lot of guys have a secret cock lust? If so, why?

Cocks are delicious…it’s a fact. In my three years online exploring Bisex I’ve lost track of the number of men who’ve admitted to being turned on by the thought of sucking cock. They keep it secret because there is a sense of shame and guilt associated with lusting after any part of a male. It must mean they are queer. It must mean they are submissive. It can’t possibly mean they are sexual beings with open minds. It’s a shame a lot keep it hidden. I imagine it’s exhausting to fight those natural urges and curiosities. Not to mention the pleasure they are missing out on. Xoxoxo
 
 
What's it like to suck on a cock, I've gotten so curious that I've started talking to a guy to experiment with and was wanting to know what's it like

Oh god…really amazing.  I mean until you have one in front of you and feel the heat against your lips and smell that insanely hot masculine scent you can’t even imagine it.  I’ve only experienced uncut cocks but foreskin…like fucking silk to touch.  Silk wrapped in steel.  Damn…my mouth is actually watering just thinking of it.  You are so hungry you just need it in your mouth.  That taste…the weight of it against your tongue…unf…you just sort of sink into a trance and go off instinct.  The rhythm drives you deeper.  His moans and the way he fists your hair like he is fighting for control…you feel powerful.  You want him to lose control, to explode on your tongue…to give you that look that says you just rocked his world.  Seriously…just once and you’ll be addicted! ;) xoxoxo