Do you think there's a difference between watching gay/bi porn versus having gay/bi fantasies?

Maybe.  I’ve met people who are just titillated by the act of watching gay/bi porn but say they have no desire to be part of the action.  Honestly though…if you watch something long enough you’d be hard pressed not to fantasize about it eventually.  Once we are desensitized to the shock value of getting off to something taboo…the mind will naturally go down those roads. :) xoxoxo