Love your blog and feedback! For those Bi/curious men in a relationship, where do you think the line is drawn in secret online activity? For example, I think watching gay/bi porn can be kept to one's self, but phone sex or camming with others may be one step too far without the other partner's consent. What are your thoughts?

I think it depends on the individual hon…for some their interest in bisex is not as intense as others.  They are happy and satisfied in their lives and it’s something they wouldn’t mind exploring but by no means the end of the world if they don’t.  Then there are others who crave it badly…so much so that it drives them to distraction and begins to affect their personal lives.  It’s a nice thought to think all guys feel they can talk to their wives about their desire to be with men but that’s just not the case.  For some it would ruin their marriage and tear apart their family.  It’s a struggle for them and the decision is never an easy one but it’s one that each guy has to make for himself.  So my take on it is not to judge or encourage but let them cross the lines themselves. 

so, I’m inviting a couple over for drinks tonight, had recently hung out with them and sucked on the wife’s tits while the husband watched. when she went to bed he confessed that she likes to see him be with other men, and they enjoy sucking cock together (he later told me she likes to watch him get fucked!). He asked about my experiences and when I started telling him we both got a bit hard, and I ended up playing with his cock and when I got up to take mine out he started to suck it! It was hot, but I told him we should wait till his wife is there…..should I fuck him too? Never fucked a guy (been fucked 1 time before and I loved it wanna do that again), but I’ve sucked cock and am a bit curious to fuck a man, especially with his wife watching/joining! I love pussy, and can’t wait to fuck her, have them both suck my cock, and could totally get into some bi-play because I know she’s into it. just not sure if I should fuck him too, what do you think? 

Well aren’t you a lucky boy ;)  I say go for it if in the moment you are feeling it…same rules apply to fucking a girl’s ass (prep & lube) and go slow since it’s a virgin ass.  It sounds like you may have your hands full fucking her and possibly letting them suck your cock together.  Depending on how much stamina you have you may want to save it for another night?  Always fun to spread out the experiences..and who knows, maybe he’ll fuck your ass one time too!  Have fun either way…explicit details are always appreciated darling :D xoxoxo