My wife and I have recently got into pegging, light bondage, and cum sharing. When she is fucking she says she wants to share another guy with me. When I try to talk afterwards, she shuts down. What do? I don't mind it, might be kinda fun.

I think we can all relate to going to those really kinky places in our minds during sex where we lose our filter, letting our fantasies be verbalized.  In the light of day without throbbing cocks and aching pussies we shy away from them.  It’s normal…and doesn’t mean she isn’t interested in a real MMF.  The reality of sharing your partner is a whole other ball game…especially for a girl.  Our minds tend to analyze things to death.  We aren’t as good at compartmentalizing as guys are.  Sex is sex to you…if something is hot it makes sense to go after it.  For girls it’s not as easy just to jump in…especially ones in long term relationships and with families.  We factor everything into it and if there are enough negatives then we don’t go for it.  Here are a few things that go through girl’s minds when considering a MMF:

1. Will it pose a threat to their current relationship?

2. Will they feel comfortable being intimate and naked with a new man?

3. Will their partner prefer sex with a man once they get a taste for it?

4. What if they fall for the other guy and develop feelings for him?

5. What if it’s awkward?

6. What is friends or family find out?

7.  What about sexual diseases?

8.  What if their guy becomes jealous and begins to resent her for fucking or enjoying another man.

9.  What if she enjoys fucking the new man more?

And the list goes on and on.  So the best thing to do is get her talking about her hesitations because you can bet she’s thought of it in depth.  If you can work past them and maybe have her interacting with other bisexual couples where she can see how they are making it work it might help her get to a place where she is ready to take it past the fantasy stage.  It’s a good sign that she herself is the one to bring it up during sex.  My BBGL Forum has many couples and bisexuals who have experience and might be a good community for you both to check out. :) xoxox

Hey so I'm going to have a threesome with two guys (I'm a girl and they're roommates) on Friday and I was wondering if you had any tips for like encouraging bisexual behaviour from them? Thanks bbgl :)

Awesome news hon! Not sure how open your guys are to exploring Bisex so assuming they aren’t against it, here are a few suggestions:

1. Begin sucking a guys cock while the other is playing with you and then reaching between your legs, bring some of your girl cum up and rub it over his cock. Then look up at the other guy real sexy and ask him to have a taste. Join in if he gets shy about it.

2. Jerk them off together- get your hands all slicked up with lube and begin stroking them together. Tell them to imagine being inside your pussy like that.

3. Get one guy to feed the other one’s cock into your ass or pussy - be sure and be vocal about how hot them touching gets you.

4. Bring out the blindfold and play a game of guess who’s sucking!

5. Straddle one’s face and get the other to begin licking your ass…encourage them to really get their tongues into it.

Hope these help you get started! Would love to hear how it goes :) xoxoxo

I love your blog it's the first thing I look at when I use tumblr. However, could I ask for some advice? I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and we both have high sex drives. I want to introduce her to bi mmf but don't know how to go about it? I'm not gay, I wouldn't even say I was bi but this really turns me on how can i do this without her thinking I'm gay. I was thinking of leaving my phone near her and leaving the room with some straight and bi mmf pics mixed amongst my camera roll.

Awesome…I’m so glad you enjoy it that much!  First off, you are ahead of the game if she has a high sex drive.  I would ask if she is open to exploring things sexually with you?  I can’t recommend it enough but using Tumblr to create a couples blog where you both can post pics or video with comments like “We need to try this!”, etc is a great way to approach it.  You could start off with MFM (threesome pics with two straight guys).  Feel her out on just opening up the relationship.  Then graduate to more MMF pics (where the men are interacting more…even just an innocent touch) and go from there.  A lot of followers are finding that it opens up dialogue.  You can always direct her to my blog if she has concerns that you are now suddenly gay for being curious to want to explore that type of pleasure and I’ll set her straight (no pun intended).  You could leave your phone out but generally it may come across that you’ve been secretly lusting after men and hiding it from her…or that you are ashamed.  Think of the couples blog as wading into the kinky pool.  Tumblr has opened me up to so many things in this past year just by being exposed to images I might never have outside of it.  Just a thought ;)  If she has a drive, love sex and is open to new things I think you may have a good shot.  However, when the dialogue unfolds about bisex, I would be proud and confident about wanting to explore it.  Don’t let her think you are shamed or any DIFFERENT because of it.  You’re just you…only sexier ;) xoxoxo
I have recently outed myself as bi to my girlfriend and she says she likes it. Now when we fuck she talks about guys fucking me in the ass or me sucking dick and it is unbelievable. My only worry is that she's only doing it for me and doesn't like it herself. How can I tell if this is something that actually turns her on?

Congrats on coming out to her and having it go so well.  Honestly…I wouldn’t worry over that so much.  For some people turning a person on is the turn on.  You can be sure it isn’t a turn off for her or she wouldn’t verbalize fantasies for you.  It’s probably new and exciting and your reaction is what spurs her on.  Turns are not concrete…they develop and grow so just keep encouraging her and the kink may solidify for her too.  Everyone has to start somewhere…think of it like planting a seed…soon enough it may be a full blown craving for her.  Be thankful that she is so responsive…many guys get ridiculed and made to feel bad when they come out to their partners. You are one lucky bum!  xoxoxo