Am I In Denial?

07/19/2014

 
Is it odd to be attracted to the thought of sucking and fucking a cock, but have zero interest in men whatsoever? Could I possibly be in denial about something? I love sex with women and am very attracted to them as well. Thanks for your thoughts.

I don’t think you have to be attracted to men to desire cock.  It’s rare when I meet a woman in real life I am attracted to…but damn, I’d love to get my mouth on a pussy some days.  Am I in denial?  No…I just like pussy.  It’s actually rare that I meet a bi guy on here who is full on attracted to men and women equally…most just like sex and the idea of fucking around with a guy just means pleasure to them…no attraction and no romantic inclination in the least.  So like what you like darling and don’t stress over the rest. xoxoxo
 
 
As long as I can remember, Ive wanted and preferred sex with men. Whats odd though, is that I can't see myself in love with a man but I can with a women. I never hear I anybody address this scenario...what is your take. Great blog by the way. I love your vision of sensuality. Thanks hon :) 

I think because men are so sexually compatible there are a lot who prefer it over sex with a woman but when it comes to having an emotional connection with men there is a disconnect.  It could be personal preference or perhaps it’s all the implications that come along with identifying as a gay man and fully allowing yourself to love and bond with another male.  I know both needs can be met by one sex…it may just take a very special guy to make you see that it’s possible to open that door.  Or a special woman who can rock your world sexually ;) xoxoxo