Hey there BBGL. It seems as thought may guys who identify as straight are are curious about exploring some bi activities. Why do you think it is that a woman can enjoy the pleasure of a woman and not be gay, while a guy is either straight or gay with no room for anything in the middle?

I think women’s response to sex is much more instinctual and fluid…it’s easier for us to see through any societal bullshit and see love and sex for what it is….we don’t associate fear, rage, or disgust with seeing same sex couples like a lot of men do. Our own upbringing has a lot to do with it. Some experience from my own past…I blissfully made out with girls for a few years when I was around the age of 12, ignorant of any feelings of right or wrong. My younger brother however, was caught “doing something” with another young boy. The parents both caught them and made a huge deal out of it. I was always curious at what horrible thing it was they did. Looking back now it makes me sad that he grew up with negative feelings about doing something as innocent as showing another boy his dick. Would they have made as huge a deal if I had been caught with my tongue in another girls mouth? Parents and how we are raised have a huge impact in how we feel about ourselves and how we view the world sexually. That’s really what needs to change and I think it is slowly. xoxox



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