I had a dream the other week my partner and I were having a threesome and we sucked cock together. I've been thinking of it ever since. I told my partner about and how I might like it in reality, along with the fact our discussion gave me a hard on, and she freaked. She knows I have kinks, like having my arse pounded, but she says she doesn't want a bisexual partner. Do you think I can convince her to let me try cock sucking?

Hearing your partner is bisexual can be a shock for some people.  Perhaps she just needs to digest it.  It’s unrealistic to think she would smile and then jump into bed with you and another guy.  First…how does she feel about two men being together?  Does it disgust her?  Or is she okay with it so long as you are not the one doing it?  From a female’s perspective she may be worried that you will prefer men to women if you go down that road.  It could be that she is not into opening up your relationship to others. It takes a secure woman and a good solid relationship to withstand the issues that may come along with introducing new partners.  You may be thinking “I want cock”…she is likely thinking bigger than that. Your best bet is to keep the communication open with her and be patient.  Getting her to accept that your bisexuality is part of you is the first step.  Once she has calmed down and is reassured that it is not a threat to your relationship you may have a chance to explore bisex with her down the road.  Good luck hon…in the meantime, keep dreaming :) xoxoxo
 


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