What are your thoughts on pegging as far as what it says about a straight man’s sexuality? This is something my girlfriend and I have been doing for years but not something I feel like I can tell my friends about without them thinking I’m gay or bi.

Pegging is new to me but I instantly knew I loved it when I first saw the pics on here.  I don’t really see it as an extension of ones sexuality.  I see as it a form of pleasure.  You boys have a g-spot in your ass….it’s really a no brainer to me.  I bet you’d be surprised how many of your friends have ventured into ass play…even if on their own.  It’s more common than you think.  It really is a shame that anal throws up the gay alarm bell.  Why should they have all the fun?  I’ve been enjoying my ass since I was young.   I encourage ALL guys to explore that uncharted territory.  It feels amazing to let another person into your body…can be very bonding for couples and in no way means you are gay or submissive…just fuckin sexy ;) Pleasure is pleasure boys and girls…plain and simple.  xoxoxo

 
 
Will you teach me how to tease and fuck my sweet virgin ass?

How to fuck your own ass in 6 easy steps:

Step 1 - Lubricate finger and massage asshole (good time to think about something sexy)

Step 2 - Insert finger slowly until your ass swallows it to the first knuckle.  Take your cock in hand and stroke.  (Breathe and wait for any discomfort to pass)

Step 3 - Begin moving finger in and out slowly until your ass can take it to the second knuckle.  Keep stroking.  (More sexy thoughts)

Step 4 - Locate that male p-spot by crooking your finger up pointed towards your balls.  (Feel free to groan in pleasure once found)

Step 5 - Remove fingers once it feels like a party and grab cock-shaped toy (if no toy work in another finger) Lube it up and begin to work the head in.  (Breathe, stroke, repeat…more sexy thoughts of course)

Step 6 - Once the head is in, continue stroking your cock and rock the toy in and out going deeper until the desired length is inside your ass.  Feelin good?  Well fuck away my friend you are officially not a virgin anymore!! :) xoxoxo
 
 
If you haven't tried strapon with your husband yet, I'd suggest getting a desensitizing spray. I'm pretty new to it but the initial pain might be a deal breaker before you even get going and the spray helps ease that a lot.

Thanks for your suggestion hon :) About a month ago I watched this video:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B002DCZW7E
Omg…best instructional video for first timers. Basically they tell you that anal doesn’t have to hurt and if it does its because you are doing it wrong. The problem with desensitizing creams is that you won’t know if you are being fucked too hard…ie tears in the delicate tissue of your ass. Plus…you want to feel everything because when done right it feels fucking amazing!! I know this because I love to be fucked in the ass and I have never had any discomfort. So I will be sure hubby’s ass feels no pain :) I recommend that vid to everyone considering it!! xoxoxo
 
 
Your blog is wonderful! Thanks for actually saying what most of us women are thinking. Now for a left turn... Any tips on for 1st time anal?

Thanks hon :)  Anal…sure.  Prep is key…for both of you.  The receiver should be nice and clean…shower and a soapy finger (mild) works for beginners.  It helps to go to the bathroom first as the sensation may be there later and you don’t want to be worrying about it at that point.  Next step - warming up the ass for penetration.  You can use a lubed up finger (anal lube or Vaseline so it provides a nice thick barrier) to massage around the opening, this will relax the area and get your partner purring.  Mouth works too if you are okay with rimming.  After a few minutes of that, more lube on your finger…all the way to your first knuckle and slowly beginning applying pressure to the asshole.  You will find that it will slowly open and swallow your finger so to speak. Now wait…good time to kiss and lick ass cheeks or talk dirty :)  After about a minute, slowly begin working your finger in and out.  Listen to your partner for ques as to whether you are going too fast, too deep, etc.  At no point should this hurt.  If it does go back and repeat the last step with more lube.  The ass will adjust and soon your finger should be sliding in and out easily.  If you plan to put a cock or toy in there you need to work up to at least three fingers depending on the size of the object you want to insert.  Each time you add a new finger, hold still for about a minute before moving them in and out…check with partner along the way and follow their ques as far as depth and speed.  In no time, with regular ass play you won’t need as much prep time to get the ass ready :)  Have fun guys!! xoxoxox  
 
 
I always wondered why most of women do not like strap on their man. However from time to time are having prostate massage but cannot convince them for strap on?

Honestly, I would never have thought about fucking my man with a strap prior to discovering my love of gay porn.  I quickly developed a case of penis envy watching how much fun men were having fucking each other in the ass ;). Having a prostate up there makes it a no brainier to me as far as ass play but I think men have to be very secure and open minded to want to be pegged in the ass by their women.  So to those men out there I say fuck yeah, you rock!! ;) xoxox


Also...check this great link I found : http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2012/03/convincing-her-to-try-it/
 
 
Did either you or your hubby get off from the pegging, and what position did you guys do it in?

We started with him on his back which was great because I could play with his cock.  Then we switched to him on his hands and knees which I loved because I got to grab his ass and really get into it…plus the view was pretty freakin sweet.  Both of us enjoyed it and will definitely be trying it again ;) xoxoxo
 
 
So recently, me and my ex broke up, and thank god because she didn't like to do much sexually... Now my question is to you, what should I look for in a woman that would be open to pegging or any other type of not-so-intense femdom?

I would definitely look for one that is sexually open...ever better if she exudes confidence and can be aggressive and take control. Since we don’t wear those preferences on our T-shirts, you might just have to resort to good old fashioned convo and just  ask your potential partners if they are open to that type of play…get into a good in depth conversation about it and put it all out there so to speak.  Since you don’t want to be stuck with someone you aren’t sexually compatible with again…I can’t stress that enough.  It might be awkward at the start of a relationship or heck even a date….but it will save you wasted time and disappointment in the long run.  Hope that helps ;) xoxoxo
 
 
After reading your blog and others like it, I tried being fucked in my ass (I'd already sucked cock) but I was too tight for the guys big cock. Any tips?

Wear a plug in your ass the hour leading up to your rendezvous.  Most asses (ones that aren’t fucked regularly) need at least 15 minutes of fingering (first one and then up to 4 depending on the size of the cock you are about to fuck) before the ass is ready to go.  I know two guys hot and horny doesn’t allow for a lot of prep work so the plug will do the trick.  Just find one that stays put when you walk and you can even it wear to wherever you are meeting him.  Remove it right before and your ass will be perfectly dilated :) xoxoxo