Do you have any tips for anal masturbation for men? :3

I could tell you what I would do if I were a man :)

First I would then experiment to see what I liked the best.  I would start with my fingers.  I’ve seen some pretty hot gif’s of guys fingering their asses while jerking off and it’s a quick way to know if you like penetration/prostate stimulation. 

Best Positions For Prostate Stimulation

I’d take some lube and rub it around my asshole…perhaps using the other hand to rub my taint (your prostate from the outside).  I’m a visual person and love doing this in front of a mirror.  Massage it slowly.  Warming up the area can feel amazing and will make penetration easier.  When I couldn’t take it anymore I would work a well-lubed finger in just to the knuckle, crooking it towards my balls.  (Your prostate is approximately 2 inches inside and is described at as chestnut sized bump).  Some guys like a gentle thrusting motion and others prefer intense constant pressure.  So I’d play around with the different stimulation to see what felt the hottest for me.  Once I got comfortable and masturbated with some anal stimulation a few times I’d move onto toys.  Here are some different types to experiment with. 

1. Anal prostate toys
2. Suctioning dildos
3. Anal beads
5. Plugs

All men should explore their asses in my opinion…whether it’s solo or with a partner.  The male s-spot could be an untapped wealth of pleasure that you never knew you even had.  Many men find that after some exploratory prostate play they are open to pegging.  I love all types of anal toys as a woman so I can just imagine what it would be like with the addition of a g-spot to my ass!  So men, if you haven’t before…try it!  Ladies…encourage your men to try it too!  :) xoxoxo

I am a 25 year old male that loves your blog. I want to buy a butt plug from your store, but I have a few questions first. Is there any side effects from using a butt plug. Is it safe to keep it in for long periods of time?

Hey hon…butt plugs are very safe toys so long as you follow a few rules.

1. Keep them clean. Glass and silicone are the easiest materials and what I recommend (though not always the cheapest). 

2. Buy one with a larger flange/head.  I have heard that men are more prone to have the toys slip inside if they buy one with a head that is too small or more suited to a woman’s ass.  Here are some examples. Naughty Plugs

3. Start slow/small and work up.  By slow I mean insert it for 15 minutes and see how your ass likes it.  Some toys are more comfortable than others.  I have a few plugs that I can only wear during sex and others I can wear out of the house and sit/walk with in.  My maximum is 4 hours and then I am starting to feel my ass get a little uncomfortable…plus I am usually horny out of my mind by then and need it out to be able to concentrate on things.  Leave it in longer each interval and see where your limit is…it’s different for all of us. 

Other than that there are no side effects…except pleasure.  Your ass won’t stretch out of shape or whatever silly myths there are out there. 

I really appreciate you buying from my store darling!  Don’t hesitate to ask if you have more questions! :) xoxoxo

Awesome news darling!  I hope she loves it.  Here are some great toys to warm her up and hopefully work up to your cock in her ass!  Good luck! :) xoxoxo

Small Plug

Small Vibe

Glass Probe/Beads

Anal Lube

Check out this link on how to ease your woman into anal:

Anal for beginners


Butt Plug Help


Hi, am a guy and I want to explore anal play when I jerk off. I have tried it but when ever I insert my butt plug and start playing anally I lose my hard on. Any tips?

Hmmm…are you experiencing pain or discomfort when you insert your butt plug?  Perhaps you have one that is too big or you are not spending enough time warming up your ass before working it in.  I know having a plug in can be intense for a bit while your ass adjusts to it.  Have you ever left it in for a time while you slowly edged to bring back your arousal?  It could also be that your ass doesn’t like the material or brand of lube you are using and it is irritating you.  Silicone and glass are my fav.  Also have you ever just explored your prostate with your fingers to see if you enjoy the stimulation?  If so then maybe you need a plug that is specific to prostate massage rather than one that just fills your ass.  Just some thoughts. :) xoxoxo