My girlfriend knows that I'm just as into guys as I am girls, and she's ok with me finding them attractive. She also knows that I like getting pegged, and have a strap-on. Unfortunately, she doesn't have any interest in trying it out. Thoughts?

I think pegging takes a bit to get use to for some girls.  Even I first dismissed it…mostly because all I would see on Tumblr was men in submissive scenes with really dominant women drilling them with giant cocks.  But I saw a few more passionate looking ones that I could see fitting in to my own relationship and comfort zone.  It’s possible you just need to show her that it’s about pleasure and not submission (even if that is your ultimate goal).  She is used to having you do the fucking and be in control…it can be very intimidating to suddenly be asked to switch roles so to speak.  Show her she can still be feminine and passionate while exploring your ass.  Here are a couple of useful links hon:

Passionate pegging videos

Passionate pegging positions

Introducing pegging in stages


Good luck hon! :)


 
 
When you fuck your man with a strap on will it change things like you think less of him or this he is not as much of a man?

Well I can’t speak for other women but for me pegging is about pleasure…I love asses and I love giving pleasure…so I view it as any other sexual act.  I don’t think any less of my guy when I am fucking him…I think it’s damn hot that he lets me inside his body like that.  It’s a whole other experience to be the one penetrating and I think every girl should try it.  I love dominant men and the idea of pegging one is so very sexy to me.  I love the power exchange and I love the idea that both partners can be both dominant and submissive. 

I would love it if every guy who visited my blog would take away from it the notion that pleasure is good and the rest of it…well it’s not worth worrying about :) xoxoxo