Why do you love pegging so much? I want to be pegged but my woman isn't into it. Maybe she would be if she benefited from it...

First off…that’s like saying I wish she’d suck my dick but she doesn’t benefit from it.  Since when is pleasure not about giving?  There are lots of activities that couples do together where pleasure is taken in turns.  She needs to look at it as foreplay leading up to when you both fuck.  Who says you need to finish while she is fucking you?  Me and my guy always finish with sex…my clit loves pounding away at him and by the time we fuck I cum super hard and so does he.  Lots of women can cum while fucking a man’s ass…there are vibrating girlcocks and ones worn inside her pussy so you can tell her NO EXCUSES :) xoxoxo
 
 
My long distance girlfriend is re-visiting Saturday. She's used a butt plug on me, and we've both enjoyed it. I've tried to talk her into doing me with a strap-on (I dislike the word 'pegging' for some reason, maybe because it doesn't sound loving), I think we would both love it. However, she doesn't want to because she thinks she's too overweight to do so. I disagree, but it is a delicate subject, obviously, and I'm not the kind of guy to force her. Do you have any advice, suggestions?

That’s great that she is open to assplay with you…definitely a good start!  I agree…pegging is a horrid word and takes all intimacy out of it.  I always think of a wooden peg in a round hole :P  Anyways, here are some thoughts on what might be behind her resistance if she has brought up her weight as an objection. 

1. Being on display while fucking you.  You may want to show her there are other positions that she can enjoy your ass in.  For instance, you can ride her girlcock…this puts the onus on you to be the active one.  Another is to have you on bent over the side of the bed and she can stand behind.  These may help ease her into it until she finds her confidence.

2. Strapons not fitting. - I am not sure of her size but if this is a concern, there are several plus size strapons that will adjust to fit any body size.  Here are a few:

Fantasy Fetish Plus Size Strapon

Divine Diva Strapon

3. Thinking it’s only for stick models.  She may benefit from you showing her a few pegging blogs where she can see real life bigger girls rocking their girlcocks.  Here is a great blog below that may boost her confidence:

http://straponbeautys.tumblr.com/archive

Other than that, just encourage her to play with your ass more…perhaps she can manually fuck it with a dildo to see how hot it gets you! :) xoxoxo

 
 
Hay my boy loves it wen I fuck him as hard and deep as I can but is there anyway I can make it more pleasurable for him?? He loves it when I peg him but Yea I just wanted to know if u had any tips or tricks to make it better :) xx

Sounds like you’re doing pretty good hon!  Honestly every guy is different so what one likes another might not.  Just try out all the different positions and have him tell you what feels the best.  My guys goes wild when I fuck his ass and suck his cock at the same time…but he’s not into a lot of hard/deep fucking so I don’t really have any tips as far as that.  I would recommend changing up your girlcocks…there are so many different ones out there that vary in size, material and curvature.  My guy loves one that vibrates.  Other than that…eye contact and dirty talk are always a good bet ;) xoxoxo