I really wanna try pegging. Me and my guy like anal play, I really wanna how him how amazing it is. I will and have fingered him and rimmed him but I want to be able to use more than my hand but I think he's scared. How do I reassure him? I think he'd really enjoy it. I'm all for giving him amazing orgasms, and I really wanna do it! It's hot! If he lets me use my hand/tongue, why is he scared of pegging? D;

Pegging is a super intimate and sexy experience for couples.  That’s really awesome that he lets your rim and finger him.  I think the issue some guys have is accepting something “cock shaped” in their asses and not getting hung up on what that makes them.  I would suggest buying him his own toy.  Nothing girly and nothing that resembles a cock.  Just a masculine probe…something with a bit of a curve on it to hit his sweet spot.  Something like the set below perhaps?  It can be used as a starter toy and moves up in size.  It can be used alone or in a harness.

Starter Strapon Kit


He may also associate pegging with submission and that might not sit well with him…reassure him that is not what it’s not about (unless he wants it to be).  The other thing I recommend a video that hubby and I saw before delving into pegging ourselves:

Instructional Videos

It walks a couple through cleaning, prep and pegging in a really easy going and fun way.  It’s followed up with 3 or 4 sexy pegging videos that show couples just enjoying it for pleasure.  He may be concerned with being clean enough for you and just not be comfortable expressing it.  If you can address his fears and put them to rest I bet he gives it a try ;) xoxoxo


 


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David
05/15/2014 1:15pm

The link to "The Expert Guide to Anal Pleasure For Men" is broken. :(


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