I really enjoy pegging and anal stimulation. I love to be pegged, or stimulate myself. My wife loves to watch me ride a dildo while she masturbates and we talk dirty. But the trouble with anal sex is often two fold: cleanliness and comfort. Often, the concern is am I clean enough to feel comfortable, and did I work so hard cleaning myself that I’m not able to use anything?
Regular toilet paper can leave me raw, to be blunt. I had taken to using moist wipes, but even then, I had to be careful because I may have sensitivities to some brands, etc. On a trip to Japan, I was exposed to the world of bidets. The Japanese are so fastidiously clean that they have bidets installed everywhere, including public toilets! I have never felt so comfortable following a trip to the loo in my life!
When I returned to the states, I began searching for how I could add a bidet to my bathroom. I found my answer on woot.com of all places. They had a one day sale of a bidet and I took a chance.
I purchased a bidet from a company called LuxeBidet (luxebidet.com). They have a few different models, the one I purchased is the NEO320.
It mounts under the toilet seat and has a control lever to the side. This model included a hot water connection, so I could have warm water instead of just cold. (Very nice) I hooked it up in a few minutes and was instantly impressed. You can run the water before spraying yourself so that you have a comfortable temperature. It only takes a few moments to spray off what you normally wipe and just a blot of tissue to dry off.
It really restored confidence and comfort for me. I feel like playing with anal toys much more often and really enjoy it when we do.
I hope this helps others find a way to really open up with anal play and experience some of the intense pleasure I have.
Thanks so much for providing this awesome venue to explore things in. Love the site, the Tumblr blog and all you’re doing. Keep it up!
Thanks for the info darling! Those of us who enjoy assplay and pegging can all relate to the fine balance between cleaning and not over-cleaning to the point that there is discomfort even before the toys are introduced. It’s great to experiment and finally find something or a combination of things that does the trick for us. I will definitely add this to my advice page under cleaning! :) xoxoxox