My long distance girlfriend is re-visiting Saturday. She's used a butt plug on me, and we've both enjoyed it. I've tried to talk her into doing me with a strap-on (I dislike the word 'pegging' for some reason, maybe because it doesn't sound loving), I think we would both love it. However, she doesn't want to because she thinks she's too overweight to do so. I disagree, but it is a delicate subject, obviously, and I'm not the kind of guy to force her. Do you have any advice, suggestions?

That’s great that she is open to assplay with you…definitely a good start!  I agree…pegging is a horrid word and takes all intimacy out of it.  I always think of a wooden peg in a round hole :P  Anyways, here are some thoughts on what might be behind her resistance if she has brought up her weight as an objection. 

1. Being on display while fucking you.  You may want to show her there are other positions that she can enjoy your ass in.  For instance, you can ride her girlcock…this puts the onus on you to be the active one.  Another is to have you on bent over the side of the bed and she can stand behind.  These may help ease her into it until she finds her confidence.

2. Strapons not fitting. - I am not sure of her size but if this is a concern, there are several plus size strapons that will adjust to fit any body size.  Here are a few:

Fantasy Fetish Plus Size Strapon

Divine Diva Strapon

3. Thinking it’s only for stick models.  She may benefit from you showing her a few pegging blogs where she can see real life bigger girls rocking their girlcocks.  Here is a great blog below that may boost her confidence:

http://straponbeautys.tumblr.com/archive

Other than that, just encourage her to play with your ass more…perhaps she can manually fuck it with a dildo to see how hot it gets you! :) xoxoxo

 


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