You seem to be so comfortable with this idea and seem to help a few people out on here. I was hoping you would be able to help me with idea of bringing the subject of pegging up with my wife….I only ask cause of the dramas I caused a few years ago when she found out (after no prior knowledge) that I’m Bi and had been sending pics (you can use your imagination as to what they contained) to an old fuck of mine. Not only that but I have started anal play by myself just recently and I would really like to have her provide me that pleasure I just don’t know how to ask…….more to the point a little scared to ask.

Well there are ways you can be subtle about it, rather then blurting out that you want her to strap a cock on and fuck your ass.  It also depends how open your communication in the bedroom is.  If you are comfortable with it, let her know how much you love when her fingers brush your taint when has her fingers down there…or better yet her mouth.  If she is sucking or licking your balls, you can tilt your hips up and when her tongue slides down be verbal (moaning) and let her know there is a new pleasure zone she may be neglecting.  Same with fingers, if she is rubbing your taint, work your hips so that her fingers inevitable graze your asshole.  Again be verbal, like she just did the best thing in the world.  If you are feeling a bit forward and know she is in her kinky zone, grab her fingers and drag them lower, working them against your hole.  Tell her how fucking good that feels.  Once she is comfortable with playing with your ass from the outside, encourage her to work a finger in.  Tell her you’ve heard how hard guys can cum with their prostates stimulated and want to give it a try.  Once she is comfortable fingering or rimming your ass…then you suggest a toy (perhaps in your case not cock shaped right away).  You want this to be about you and her and exploring new pleasure…not a chance for you to get something cock shaped in your ass.  If she goes for a toy…show her some intimate pics of loving couples fucking with a strapon (tons on my strapon page) and ask her if she’d ever want to experience that with you.  I hope she is open to it hon…good luck! :) xoxoxo  

Also check out this great link: http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2012/03/convincing-her-to-try-it/
 


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