For all of the supposedly trans* people sending you messages, there sure are a lot of transmisogynistic terms being used by them. Any idea what that's about? Seems more like anon fetishists trying to get off than people who actually struggle with gender dysphoria to me.

It’s possible they are not transgendered.  There is such a wide gamut on here…from people who fantasize about it only to those with real life struggles.  It’s like anything with porn…people glamorize it…and throw around terms that can be offensive to some.  Perhaps they find it an escape to come on Tumblr and forget their troubles and just want to play and feel desired by people who appreciate them? Either way you are good to remind us of the more serious side hon :) xoxoxo
 
 
I am 24 and have a great girlfriend of a year. I want to suck some cock and maybe get fucked by a guy though. Do you think it's alright if I do that and not tell my girlfriend?

Well that’s not really my call…that’s something you’ve got to decide for yourself hon. Have you approached her about your interest in cock? I wouldn’t jump the gun and go behind her back if you haven’t even explored if that is something you can share with her as a couple. I can certainly understand how a lot of men get to a point where they know its not an option with their partner and they know they can’t deny that side of them….and go out and satisfy that need on the side. It’s a big deal to make that step though so make sure it’s worth any consequence that may arise. And always, always play safe…you don’t want to risk her health because you were careless. Hope that helps hon :) xoxoxo