Why Foreskin is Awesome:

1. The foreskin itself is a hugely sensitive pleasure zone. It contains over 20,000 nerve endings and makes up over half of the penile skin. Uncircumcised men often report that the foreskin is the most pleasurable part of the penis. As well, when uncut men masturbate they don’t need lube - they can just stroke the foreskin up and down. The sliding motion during sex is also very pleasurable for both the guy and girl. The foreskin has tons of functions, basically.

2. The foreskin protects the rest of the penis. Imagine for a second, walking barefoot over gravel for a long period of time. What’s going to happen to your feet? They’re going to toughen and callous over. But what if you wear shoes instead of going barefoot? Your feet will stay sensitive. It’s the same with circumcision. Obviously men aren’t rubbing their penises on gravel (geez, I hope not) but penises do rub against clothing and bed sheets, etc. The glans (head) of a circumcised man’s penis is dried-out and keranitized from being exposed (the glans is supposed to be an internal organ when not erect)…and thus less sensitive. For an uncircumcised man, the glans is always protected and stays sensitive.
 
 
1st) I love your blog it's fantastic please keep up the good work ! 2nd) I love guys and girls and I've been lucky enough to have a couple of bi mmf threesomes, when I suck hard cock I try to deep throat as best I can, but the girls always seem to beat me taking much more in, and the next day my tonsils or back of the throat are sore, have you any advice ?

Go easy on your throat darling!  Below are some general tips to try and improve your ability to deep throat. :) xoxoxo

Things you can do before you have a cock in your mouth:

1. Relax -  Taking a cock deep in your throat only works if you’re relaxed.  Make sure you practice breathing through your nose as that is key with a mouth full of cock.

2. Desensitize-  Open your mouth, stick your tongue out, and use a toothbrush or your finger to find exactly where your gag reflex is. You’ll know when you’ve hit it because, well, you’ll start gagging.Now, take your toothbrush and scrub that area for ten seconds, or as long as you can.  Try and do this a couple times a day.

3. Play with a toy - Take a realistic dildo and practice sliding one back and holding it there for as long as you can. 

Tips for deep throating:

1. Get in the right position! You want to straighten your mouth and throat to make it as easy for yourself as possible. The best position will have your head up, or down depending on the position.  Lay on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed. This way, the path that your man takes, will be as straight as possible. If he’s much taller than you, you can also do this in a 69 position if your both lying on your sides.

3. Lube!  Make him as wet as possible before deepthroating. You can use your mouth (the most enjoyable) or try applying a lubricant to his cock (especially rhe cock head).

4. Practice!  Deep throat takes practice and like anything, the more you practice, the better you’ll become. So when you begin to feel the urge to gag, relax and hold it there as long as you can. This will raise you “resistance level” and the more you do this, the more you’ll be able to take.

5.  Stay in control. Always make sure to use a position where you can “pull out” as soon as you need to. You don’t want to find yourself chocking on him. Only deep throat if you fully trust him to not hurt you and just for extra insurance, you might want to keep one hand on his balls!
 
 
I like this girl and I thought she was somewhat innocent but I wasn't naive about it and one day I was looking at her phone and seen a dudes dick. Unfortunately he was bigger than me and it killed my confidence and I gave up trying to be with her. I just knew I couldn't compete.

Well for starters, checking out a girl’s phone is never a good idea…you are only asking for trouble by invading her privacy like that.  Secondly, you may be taking the pic out of context.  Just because it’s there doesn’t mean she only likes big cock.  I actually prefer medium cocks myself.  That doesn’t mean the odd big cock pic doesn’t find it’s way to my tumblr.  The whole size thing is a load of crap.  Big cocks are not the only ones that can satisfy a woman.  You need to work on being more secure and rocking what you’ve got.  Though I will let you in on a little secret…70-75% of women do not orgasm during vaginal sex.  So for the majority of women out there cock size does not equal a better lover…doing your homework and learning how to pleasure a woman makes you a better one.  True story. :) xoxoxo
 
 
I don't understand how a finger can get a girl off but a 5 or 6 inch dick can't?

A quick lesson in female anatomy can help that. Google g-spot and read up on it. It’s only a few inches inside a pussy and curved a bit in towards the pelvis. So a straight dick barely grazes it. A couple of fingers curved just right…fucking bliss darling. There is no magic spot deep inside of a pussy that only big cocks can reach…just our cervix…and for most women having a large dick pounding into it hurts. Do yourself and your future girlfriends a favor and do your research! Here’s another secret I’ll let you in on…there are tons of girls out there who aren’t able to orgasm from their g-spots…only their clits. So guess what? No matter what size dick you own it isn’t go to make a bit of difference to them. That’s why I say don’t put too much stock in dick size. Cover all your basis! Learn how to lick pussy and rim and finger her ass and talk dirty and locate her g-spot! :) xoxoxo
 
 
I'm a very physical person. I love hugs, and I thrive off of attention. Currently I'm in a long distance relationship and it's killing me. I love my partner, and in only one month he'll be back, but I still find my self flirting with others to make the time pass by faster. Do you have any recommendations on how to make long distance work?

Yes darling…take up reading!!!  You can live vicariously through others…feel their love and passion and hot lip biting sex…all without doing anything that you may regret.  We all feel that need bubble up at times but if you love him and it’s just in his absence that you seek out others then you need to take control of yourself and find a new outlet.  Trust me when I say finding a good book will get you through your rough patch.  Here is my Goodreads list…I have read a ton and have reviewed my favs so check it out and behave! :) xoxoxo


 
 
I wrote an email to Hanes asking if they will ever make mens panties. What are your thoughts on major brands being too scared to try out such a bold idea? Is it sexist on their part or caused by sexism towards men in society? Just curious as to what you think. (: Read letter here.

If there is a big enough market for it then yes, I could see Hanes making such a bold move.  Would they be the first?  Probably not.  I could see them branching into it if a smaller brand name jumped into the market and was successful marketing such a product.  At the end of the day if there is a profit to be had, a major player will want a big piece of it. 

That being said, would the men who have an interest in sexier panties walk into department stores and surf the racks of lacy panties next to the guys there shopping for some briefs?  I have my doubts.  For most it’s a private fetish…if they are buying panties in public it’s under the guise of buying them for their wives.  Or they are being ordered online in the privacy of their own homes.  Why?  Because there is a huge stigma with a man expressing any signs of femininity.

So until that changes and men feel comfortable enough in society to purchase a more feminine style of dress marketed for men and sold in the men’s department, then I can’t see a major player like Hanes rocking the man panty market any time soon.  Baby steps though.       

I think your letter was well written…and you are right…many men do indulge and would love to have well made, readily available panties to buy.   Here’s hoping that more men around the world find their voice like you have darling :) xoxoxo

 
 
So my boyfriend and I are in an open relationship so he has a gf of six years that he lives with. He's into pegging and the femdom stuff as well as I but we still enjoy just our one on one time but it seems like he gets soooooo much more excited ment out of his ass play than actually having sex with me and I can't help but to almost get jealous. I just want him to love our sex and stuff not more but at least equal but I feel like his gf he gets regular sex out of all the time.

That’s tough hon…not uncommon though.  Am I right in saying that at home, his partner does not indulge his need for assplay?  If that is the case then he is probably starved for it with you.  It may be that he responds the same way when he has regular sex with his partner but because you’ve seen him in the throws of sex that really hits the mark for him then you are noticing the difference.  He may not even realize that his responses are that contrasted…to the point where you are feeling jealous.  You need to tell him how you feel and explain that in order to feel satisfied with the relationship sexually it can’t always be about pegging and femdom…that you have needs too…and one of those is good old fashion sex that is just as enjoyable.  Good luck darling! :) xoxoxo
 
 
Hey, love everything you post! Question... I'm married and I am faithful to my wife. However when it comes to sex she's very normal and unadventurous. So I spend a lot of time fantasizing about my gay/bi experiences when I was younger. I love and miss cock! And when I jerk off it's to gay/bi porn. However my gay/bi experience are linked to some baggage (meth) that I've moved on from so there's a stigma there. Am I forever doomed to have boring sex and jerk off to the thought of 69ing a dude?

No…no you are not :)  Many people will tell you that their fairly boring sex lives suddenly  turned a corner one day and that something breathed new life into it.  So there is always hope.  Take me for example…up until my mid 30’s my sex drive was meh and I wouldn’t say I was adventurous (with the exception of ass play).  Fast forward to today and look at what I am into.  Our sex life has never been better and we only anticipate it to get better from here on in.  I am not sure how old you guy are are how long you have been married but don’t give up hope.  Try and open up the dialogue about exploring more sexually with her.  If she loves you and truly wants you both to have a sexually satisfying relationship than she may come around.  Remember baby steps though.  No girl is going to go from lights out and covers up to “oh god, fucking give it to me!” in two seconds…so be patient.

Bi/gay porn is HOT and so is cock so I imagine it will always be a huge turn on for you.  We fantasize about what we don’t have.  We all have our go-to jerk off porn (mine’s gay too) but that doesn’t mean you can’t revive your sex life.  You may not have a certain kink you want to approach your wife about but the link below has some good tips on how to get the dialogue gong with her so check it out.  Good luck darling! :)

Tips

 
 
So my girlfriend finally decided to have sex and give her first bj... but when she was giving me head i couldn't come no matter how good it felt. but then i stuck it in her vagina and i swear i felt the urge to cum after a couple of thrusts and i had to pull out. any tips on how to teach her to make me cum from oral alone.. p.s i ended up having to jack myself off and have her put mouth on dick when i was about to cum for me to finish.

I’m going to assume this is your first bj?  Otherwise I’d suggest you just tell her what you enjoy and what puts you over the edge.  I’ve heard this from several guys lately and it’s strange to me because I was always under the impression that oral was the ultimate stimulation for a guy.  If it felt good I’m not sure why you couldn’t cum from it.  I can tell you what my guy likes…

1. Eye contact and moaning - he needs to know I’m loving it!

2. Variation…don’t just bob in place like a bobble head…the tip, underside and shaft should all be played with separately. 

3. That little trail of spit from my lips to his cock when I pull back and smile.

4. Working his cock in as deep as I can and swallowing.

5. Playing with his balls, taint and asshole while sucking his cock.

6. Telling him to cum for me.

7. Having him cum in my mouth or on my face.

If any guys have some experience with not being able to cum via oral…please feel free to share! :) xoxoxo



 
 
I don't have that large of a penis. 5 in maybe 5.5, what are some things you'd suggest as a girl that if you encountered someone this size that'd you like?

I’m not a fan of big cock so yours sounds normal to me…don’t stress over it hon.  Our g-spot is a couple of inches in…not at the mouth our cervix.  Long cocks are overrated…learn how to eat pussy, rim ass, pinch nipples and I promise you your girl isn’t going to miss a few inches that doesn’t even fit in her pussy anyways ;) xoxoxo