This is my first panty style harness. I recently tried a Rodeoh panty harness on at a local sex shop and didn't love the way it fit my body. This model looked like it had more of a flattering cut to it and certainly the price was right to give it a try. In the picture shown I am wearing it with a strapless dildo which doesn't weigh down the harness. I did try it on with several of my dildos and found that it would support most of them under 6.5" in length. The larger/longer ones just sagged straight down. There is also a little pocket hidden behind the opening that allows for a small bullet vibe.